"You can expect what you inspect”.
– W. Edwards Deming
Last
week I wrote about focusing on what isn’t broken in your life and career and
the importance of being positive and enjoying the values you have experienced
and continue to experience.
‘But
of course, I cannot be Pollyanna and assume that there are no things in your life and career
that are not working – or broken – and need to be fixed. Not addressing these –
at least the most important ones – can derail your desire and efforts to grow
and succeed. So this week – let’s look under the hood again – but focus on
fixing what is broken.
The
start – identify what is broken or not working.
Could
it be…?
You
are not satisfied in what you do …
And
this is negatively affecting your home life and/or relationship …
You
don’t find the energy in your job or career that you once had …
You
have grown apart from your company …
You
have grown apart from your industry …
Your
industry is not growing …
Your
industry is shrinking …
Your
values have changed …
Your
career or job does not align with your changed values …
Your
interest are changing …
You
are not happy …
You
feel you can do more …
You
want to make more money …
You
don’t need to make as much money (common in the later years when needs change)
…
…
and the list can go on.
So
now it is time to be true to yourself. It is time to make a list of those
things that you feel are broken in your life and/or career – because they are
so intertwined.
And
you need to be honest – blunt honest – and that may be painful. You may also
need to get the feedback from a trusted advisory, spouse or significant others.
They may see things that are broken in you that you do not see.
Many
years ago, I was in one of my runs as a senior executive (had a few of these)
of a company with about 1400 employees. I was 32 years old with huge
responsibilities and responsible for a sales budget of $35 million annually. I
was making gobs of money and I was put on the pedestal in the company.
But
something was wrong and I really didn’t see it. But my wife Vikki did. She saw
the changes and the yearnings to be in a different place. I didn’t. I just knew
that despite the money and the stature, I was not happy. That is when I
embarked on my own business, with a young son, mortgage and more – I struck out
on my own, and I may not have done it if it wasn’t for the wise counsel of my
wife. This is why it is important to engage others in this analysis.
Let’s
create the Do List – Things to Fix
It’s
like having the “honey do” list for around the house – those things that are
broken and need to be fixed.
Please
take out a piece of paper and put at the top:
My Do List: What is Broken
Then,
in no rank or priority, start writing down what you or others see as broken in
your career and/or life that you can control and change.
Writing
down that The Economy Sucks won’t have any value to you and will be a
wasted thought. You can’t singlehandedly change it unless you aspire to the
Oval Office – and then I still wonder! Writing down Start the day with a
positive thought – now that is actionable and in your control. Get the
idea?
Keep
going until you have to think for more than 3 minutes to come up with the next
item. If it talks you longer than 3 minutes, it likely isn’t critical
Okay
– you there and ready?
Now
like any coach would recommend, you need to prioritize the list by a very
simple ranking system: A-B-C:
A: Must be fixed as it is something that
without resolve will not allow me to move forward. Examples of this would be
health, impending financial disruption in life, broken relationship, addiction,
etc.
B: Critical but not inhibiting you from
moving forward. Important however to achieve your plan. Examples of this would
be dissolving industry, poor relationship with your current management, poor or
marginal performance in your own business, pressure at home, pressure from
others you respect, etc.
C: Important but not critical. This would
include things such as need to update resume, improve networking if you have
not been networking, commute, salary issues (unless you are facing an A –
financial disruption), etc. They are important, but they can wait until the
other broken issues are resolved.
So,
at this point you have your list written down and prioritized. Now, prioritize
each issue you prioritized as an A (n Must be fixed) numerically with 1
being the most critical and important and going down from there: 2, 3, 4 5,
etc.
You
have now identified the top three or more critical issues to fix as part of
this journey. Focus on the issues in rank order, finish the A’s and then on to
the B’s and C’s. Keep your list up to date, keep it in view always. Share it
with those close to you.
It
is not rocket science – it is just the basics – I am hoping you are learning
this. And thank you for reading this. - Dan
Dan
Moran
President
& Founder
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